I am so bored by romantic comedies and the ‘paint-by-numbers’ predictable plots that lame-stream Hollywood churns out. To its credit, Crazy Stupid Love tries its very best to be different. It starts by steering away from the formulaic cute-meet intro followed by boy and girl falling in love, followed by boy and girl fight, followed by boy/girl chase each other down at airport/bus terminal to be tearfully reunited while trendy pop song plays out. Instead, we are introduced to a couple at the other end of the spectrum. Steve Carell is Cal, a 50-something suburban dad who is horrified when his wife Emily (Julianne Moore) announces after 25 years of marriage that she wants a divorce. Apparently, she is bored and has been having an affair at work.
Cal falls apart and starts moping around in the same bar every evening where he indulges in bitter monologues and gets rejected by every woman he tries to hook up with. Eventually, local playboy Jacob (Ryan Gosling) takes pity on Cal and decides to improve his chances by changing his image and teaching him a few tricks of the trade. Cal starts sleeping around but soon realises the playboy lifestyle is not all it’s cracked up to be. Meanwhile, ex-wife Emily is trying to find fulfillment with her work fling David (Kevin Bacon) who is turning out to be just as boring as Cal. Their son, played by Jonah Bobo, is also struggling with love as he has fallen for his 17-year old babysitter (Analeigh Tipton), who herself has a crush on the older Cal. Then, the love story expands even further to include the playboy Jacob who falls in love when he meets Hannah (Emma Stone), the first woman not to fall for his smooth tricks.
Crazy Stupid Love is refreshing because it doesn’t tell the story of first-love, but rather embraces the bigger cycle of love. A once crazy-in-love couple have lapsed into taking each other for granted, and so need to rediscover what it means to care for a significant other. Any couple who has been with each other for any length of time knows how easily relationships stagnate without hard work. More than that, Crazy Stupid Love examines why lasting love is worth fighting for. Cal discovers the playboy lifestyle is unfulfilling and so develops the courage to fight for the one he truly loves. Jacob is influenced by Cal's great maturity without realising it and when he discovers his love for Hannah, he is ready to make changes and journey down a whole new avenue of life.
Crazy Stupid Love is not a perfect movie, it is clumsy in parts, and a little silly in others, but employs a far more realistic view of love than your average rom-com. Love is good, but has to be constantly and self-sacrificially worked at so that it can grow into something even better.
Three stars out of five for Crazy Stupid Love (PG13 for coarse humor, sexual content and strong language).




